Christianity and sex (again!)

Once again, I am feeling annoyed by the religious (which seems to be my default position at the moment). There was a report in several papers yesterday about plans for the NHS to encourage the use of longer-lasting and possibly more effective forms of contraception (implants etc) (See,,8122-1843486,00.html). It also reported the objections of LIFE (the anti-abortion group) on the grounds that this encouraged promiscuity. Once again, we see the enthusiasm of (some) Christians for trying to regulate women via fear of the consequences. (The same tone was visible in objections to possibly giving girls a vaccination against cervical cancer – see,,1587040,00.html).

Why aren’t such groups speaking out against treatments for lung cancer (which may encourage people to take up the vice of smoking) or improved safety in cars (which may encourage reckless driving)? Because, I’m afraid, they’re obsessed about sexual behaviour and especially female sexual behaviour, which somehow leads them to think nostalgically about the days of bastardy and back-street abortions. If you are opposed to abortion, you should rationally encourage the use of reliable contraception. If you think children are better not brought up in single parent families or being unwanted, you should at least consider allowing some limited abortion. If you think sex is only permissible when it is open to procreation, you should tell the sterile or the post-menopausal to be celibate. (Andrew Sullivan has an interesting article on the contradictions of the Catholic views on this: [I once was at a Lent Group that was discussing AIDS and where the participants were nearly all Catholics – I was tempted to make some comment about the Pope’s opposition to condoms on the grounds that all intercourse should be open to the transmission of death. Fortunately, I resisted]. Christians should make a positive moral stand on why the good of sex should be kept inside marriage, not just be trying to exploit fears about disease and pregnancy. (And what does it say about the Christian attitude to children, if religious groups want them to be forced on women as harmful consequences, not positively wanted?) Christianity doesn’t say ‘you shouldn’t covet your neighbour’s possessions because the stress may lead you to a heart attack’; they should take a more spiritual view of why sex should be used properly.


One thought on “Christianity and sex (again!)

  1. Hi there you raised some interesting points, I have my own, the government/education authority, felt that teaching teens and younger to try everything, eg oral, anal, male+male female with female ect. was a good liberal way to teach young people, and now that most teens are loosing their virginity younger, and single mothers/young pregnancys are increased. they are wondering why. and How can we stop all these s.t.d’s taking over the younger generation. its the governments secular Godless mess, they dug there grave and now they get to lay in it……

    as to whether or not abortion is right. Im sadened by peoples lack of understanding in this area. If I killed your grandfather I am a murderer, your mother, yep still a murderer. your dog, yep still killing,your friend, yep Hes a murderer, a police man, murderer, but unborn baby. its ok just fetus, just cells, Not murder. hmmmmmmm Go figure ???

    and yes as oposed to abortion, a more permanent contraceptive is a good idea, but like you said they would do better teaching celibacy, or teaching people to value themselves enough to wait for marriage.

    sorry Im opinionated. feel free to chat..


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